Hall Pass

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Do you want a hall pass from some part of your life?  Wouldn’t you like to be able to eat whatever you want, drink whatever you want?  Shop for whatever you want? Having sex with whoever you want to would be an added bonus for some of you as well.  The idea of a hall pass is fun without consequences.  We want to be Spiderman but without responsibility.  We don’t want to have to hang back, hesitate, reel in, our instincts just because of the damned consequences.

Men like the idea of hall passes because they like to imagine themselves being able to have sex with anyone they want to.  Okay, so you are a married man, and your wife says you can have a hall pass for forty-eight hours.  She likes the security of having a man who loves her and is there for her, but she’s willing to give that up so you can have a good time.  She’s getting a hall pass too.

Out the man goes to convince females that he is available for a single glorious night of sex if the woman is willing to have sex with him.  He isn’t available for permanent mating, he isn’t ready for commitment or caring, he just wants to shag.  That’s going to be tricky.

The woman goes out on the town and tell men that she’s ready and willing for some fun sex and she doesn’t want to hear from them again. If they’re both reasonable attractive, he is going to have a much more difficult time than she is.  Let’s face it, an attractive female is going to have an easier time finding a mate than a man is.  Biology works like that.

Back to the hall pass.  We live in a world of consequences.  But a world where we want to have fun.   We want to have a good time.  But sometimes things get out of hand.  There really is no hall pass.  For everything we do, there are consequences.  What we say, what we do, what we eat, what we drink, what we invent.  Who invented smart phones, Viagra, pop tarts, watches, spam?

I’d like to live my life with more discretion and diligence.  I am not wishing for a hall pass, I’m wishing to pay attention, I want to live life with my eyes open.

Published in: on June 6, 2015 at 7:27 pm  Leave a Comment  

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